"He brought me up also out of a horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings." Ps. 40:2
I know you are busy, but let's plug in the coffee. I won't stay too long ... promise.
One of my all-time favorite movies is The Princess Bride. In one part of the movie, Wesley---Princess Buttercup's one-true love-finds himself thrown into the "pit of despair." He is tortured and beaten in the pit and his spirit is all but broken. At one point, it looks as if Wesley will be stuck in the pit of despair for the rest of his life. But, at the last moment, Wesley finally finds a way of escape and is eventually rewarded with his beautiful bride!
A couple of months ago, I too, found that I had fallen into a pit of despair and rejection. For the first time in my life, a fellow co-worker didn't like me. And she wasn't shy about showing it! I let her rejection fester in my life until I found myself falling further and further into the pit.
I don't know about you, but "pits" don't conjure up pretty visuals for me. I see depression, selfishness, jealousy, and discontent, just to name a few. And one of the worst things about "being in the pit" is that we often find ourselves lingering there for long periods of time. Pits, unfortunately, can become like quick sand---as they pull us further and further under, all the while suffocation us emotionally.
But praise God, for He is our way of escape! As the Psalm says, He can bring u sout of a horrible pit. It's up to us to respond to his leading.
I often refer to this time in my life---when I need to respond to God---as "the classroom." I am the pupil and He is the teacher... and, sometimes, I don't always respond to God's lessons the way I should! So, like any great teacher, He has to repeat the same lesson again and again until I finally understand what He's trying to teach me. It's at those times I have to remember 1st Thessalonians 5:18: "In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you." So, even if you're heart isn't rejoicing, just remember to be obedient in giving thanks. The heart's rejoicing will come later.
Once my heart is back in line with God, I have to focus on my thoughts. One of the biggest struggles I face when I find myself falling into a pit is that I tend to allow my thoughts to run out of control. I can play out entire "what if" scenarios in my mind in under five seconds. To help curb that process, I recall Phil. 4:8, which states "Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are honest, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things." This verse helps get my thoughts back in line and my perspective back on God. Finally, I begin to pray for the situation---both for my attitude and my response. God is so loving in showing me that it's been His chisel the whole time, chipping away at my life to fashion me more like His Son and bring me out of the pit. Oh, how I welcome that!
We all have times where we find ourselves in a pit, but thank the LORD He does not leave us there! He sets "our feet upon a rock." That rock is Jesus. As Deut. 32:4 says, "He is the Rock, his work is perfect; for all his ways are justice and right is He."
And fortunately, like Wesley, we have a prize waiting for us on the other side of the pit---a renewed, reinvigorated relationship with the Lord. God brought me out of my pit---my relationship with my co-worker has drastically improved, thanks to a lot of prayer and the help of some insight from the Lord---and I know that He wants to deliver you out of yours as well.
Oh, we have a mighty God and He loves you with an everlasting love! Let Him love on you today.
Can't wait for our next time together. Thank you for letting me come to visit.